So, a thought. If Cullen jumps up all excited when femquisitor comes to chess, does Dorian jump up with the same enthusiasm for male Inquisitor?
Gentle - Daniel F. Gerhartz
if your boyfriend is your best friend, you’re doing it right.
if your boyfriend is your only friend, you’re doing it wrong.
Don’t fuck with me
This is great. You were very mature and explicit, as well as helpful in the ways that you could be. I don’t think you could have handled this any better than you did. 4 for you, Glen Coco.
I wish I could have stood up for myself in this way when I was a teenager
Threatening suicide to get what you want isn’t “borderline” abusive, it is abusive.
Men who do this have a very high risk of murdering whomever they’re trying to guilt trip when the guilt trip eventually stops working.
ironically hes joked about killing me before
I could never of been that sure of myself and protective of my own health when I was 14. What you did is wonderful and you should be incredibly proud of yourself.
This is very important, everyone. Also, if your partner ever threatens to hurt themselves, either because they, “feel so bad that they made you upset,” or for any reason, that’s abuse. They’re trying to manipulate you into not saying you’re upset with their behavior. “I love them, and I don’t want them to be hurt because of me, so I shouldn’t speak up, even though they hurt my feelings.” That’s a perfect example of emotional manipulation and guilt tripping you. If they threaten that they may die- either from suicide or a, “broken heart,” if you leave them, that’s abuse. You shouldn’t have to live in fear of your partner hurting themself of killing themself just because you want out of a relationship. If they don’t respect your choices, or especially if they don’t respect you, leave them. It’s not your fault.
Fourteen year old me is in freakin’ AWE.
This kind of manipulation is scary, and somehow you have to find the strength to say NO. Steel yourself when the other person, male or female, says they will hurt or kill themselves if you break up with them or don’t go out with them, recommend they get help elsewhere, but continue to say no when they demand personal interaction with you. That person will try to devour your life. You will spend your days wondering how you can avoid a scene, how you can keep from “hurting” them, and the relationship can go downhill. It’s like these people say, protect your own health. Don’t let a psychological vampire like this into your life. Trust us. We’ve all had them, and they will harm you psychologically and perhaps even physically. They have to mend themselves. You can’t do it for them.
this is amazing, 10000000 props
Shhhiiiiiiitttt. The girl was FOURTEEN when she said this!! This is why im here for tumblr/viral feminism ans 13 and 14 year olds writing essays on rape culture on their blogs because damn so many of my.middle school girl friends were suffering from abusive relationships and didnt know what to do about it. Props to this girl and women who influenced her
So fucking important. All of this.
Please keep this circulating. Cops are getting more and more brazen, know your rights!
good to know
my brother is a police officer and these are all v true and things he made sure i knew but also remember the police can lie lie lie. the best thing, as mentioned, is to yell “i do not consent” repeatedly and hope someone will hear and act as an eyewitness for you
this is super important and we need to circulate this especially with the upcoming chicago raid ?? we need to do everything we can to protect possible victims of police brutality and hate crimes. it is not okay to break the law that goes for the people being arrested and the people arresting. stay safe.
this is important! signal boost!
The things you can ask Cole. By far the best use of freetime ever.
10/11 - Do You Hear the People Sing?
Singing the song of angry men?
It is the music of the people who will not be slaves again
Is there a world you long to see?
Then join in the fight that will give you the right to be free
who weren’t androids or aliens
whose asexuality wasn’t seen as something needing to be ‘fixed’
and who aren’t socipaths
Does godzilla count as a sociopath?
TO BE HONEST I WOULDN’T REALLY USE GODZILLA AS A SHINING EXAMPLE OF ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION IN MEDIA BECAUSE GODZILLA IS A HUGE FUCKING LIZARD
"you’re too young to determine your sexuality" said no one to the heterosexual teenager
you spray dogs with water when they won’t listen, but will it work on an ally? the a is not for you. get off the couch, stop barking, go away.
"If more girls wanted to be scientists, there would be more female scientists"
*takes a deep breath* WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY THAT ACTIVELY DISCOURAGES FEMALE INTELLIGENCE BY PAINTING IT AS A NON FEMININE TRAIT AND SETS UP MALES TO BE IN POSITIONS OF ACADEMIC SUPERIORITY DESPITE THERE BEING NO CORRELATION BETWEEN GENDER AND ACADEMIC ABILITY thank you for your time
okay but when you have holocaust survivors and people who were activists during the civil rights movement supporting mike brown and then KKK members and neo nazi’s supporting the officer you should be able to figure out which side is the right one.